I have been reading blogs for over a year now, i have noticed what it takes to keep up readers. I'm afriad sometimes I will not be light hearted enough all the time. I have been thinking a lot about relationships lately and these are not always so light hearted.
I feel like several relationships are evolving around me. Some are ending, some are beginning, and some are getting better and better.
Some are friendships, collegues, family, personal. All take the same things to build.
I have been thinking a lot about relationships that have ended in my life, and why they end. I don't know if I believe that saying People grow apart, is a hundred percent true. Maybe peoples likes and dislikes change. And common interests change. Is it these changes that end relationships? Maybe you just run out of things to talk about.
I am learning that i have to put in different efforts into each relatioship, each is different, just as everyone has different personalities, each relationship is different.
So I guess what I find myself wondering, Is am I sad that relationships have ended. I think so. some of them, the people who I really enjoyed hanging out with. Old collegues mostly. the other half are people who have proven they are not always there for me. like they claim. people who will never say they are happy or proud of you. People who are always putting me down. I am done having these type of people in my life.
I think its time to only surround myself with people I enjoy hanging out with. I am finding peace with letting relationships end.
and because a post is no post without pictures.
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